Is It Permissible to Publicize Videos of Disciplining Children?

Question:

I was shocked to see my friends sharing videos on the internet of them punishing their children. It is uncomfortable to reach out to them but this seems terrible. What should I do? Why is this not illegal?

Answer:

Hello,

Lets discuss the three aspects of the topic:

  1. Is it permissible to upload videos of one punishing their child to the internet? We have already written a number of times that this is an action that hurts children, and even puts them at risk.  We do not upload content of our children to the internet, and for sure not videos such as these.
  2. What should I do? As much as you can, make your friends aware of the great risks of uploading content of one’s children to the internet (there are many research papers on this) and understandably the issue of causing harm to one’s children.
  3. The State – the State cannot enter into any inappropriate topic, for then we will become a police state, with harsh laws and unending controversy, etc. The tool is the community, such as with your sensitivity, and this is how we can stop this.

All the best,

Rabbi Yuval Cherlow

Head of the Tzohar Ethics Center

For additional reading:

  • Is It Permissible for Parents of Children with Special Needs to Talk About Their Lives?
  • Between Parents and Children – Honor and Independence
  • Is It Appropriate to Upload Videos of My Children to the Internet?

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